But don’t I do that same

I get upset when I see people …, but don’t I do the same:

Say hurtful things to me when they are unhappy or angry, but don’t I do the same.

Be indifferent to me when they don’t need me, …
Put their needs above those of mine,…
Communicate with me on a “need to know” basis, …
Are not a 100 percent honest with me, ..
Twist things to suit their personal interests ..
Distort facts to evade responsibility..
Take my innocuous unintended negative remarks personally and remember them for the rest of their lives, …
Are not happy with my success and happiness, …
Can’t join in in my celebration of life,…
Are blind to my caring, loving and affectionate feelings towards them, ..
Are unable to feel my inner pain, sadness and sorrows, …