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Understanding love

by Kishore Chandiramani May 5, 2023 0

Overview

Love is not a feeling, not even a state of being or a finished product, but a constant state of becoming, it’s live and beating, like our heart, all the time. When you truly love somebody your thought I have done enough for this person and he/she is not responding gets replaced with the thought I haven’t done enough for this person and would like to do more. Even if you have done enough for this person, it has become the past, but your love right now is judged by your willingness to do more in the future. If that willingness has died your love has died.

The Psychology of Complaining

by Kishore Chandiramani May 5, 2023 0

Overview

It is important not to confuse giving feedback with complaining.
The culture of giving feedback and complaining is considered desirable as it ensures the proper functioning of any system or organization. Every organization should have a mechanism by which the users can complain and get their grievances addressed.

What is wrong in calling a spade a spade

by Kishore Chandiramani May 5, 2023 0

Overview

Isn’t it wise to speak the truth only when it is helpful to the individual concerned?
A friend of mine once asked me how my neighbour was, a general causal question, as we were standing in front of my house and the neighbour’s house was in sight. My instant answer was, “he is an uncouth person who is struggling to settle in here in this country.” The friend, who was deep into Christian spirituality and believed in loving thy neighbours, was taken aback, forcing me to feel guilty for not loving my neighbour.

Is it okay to tolerate injustice?

by Kishore Chandiramani May 4, 2023 0

Overview

Tolerance is a virtue, but tolerance of injustice is not.
Tolerance is a virtue, but tolerance of injustice is not. Sadly, I see injustice happening all around me all the time, and not tolerating injustice would mean I remain in confrontational and fighting mode perpetually. A polite reminder can change things for a short while but not long term as it is difficult for people to change their personalities.

The importance of being social

by Kishore Chandiramani May 4, 2023 0

Overview

Most human beings underestimate the depths of their connections with other human beings.
If I were to ask myself what is the one thing that causes the most happiness to human beings, the answer would be relationships, and if I were to ask what would be the single most thing that causes the most suffering to human beings it would still be relationships.

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